Spiritual leader

My husband never ceases to amaze me by his leadership in our home.  I have really stepped up my relationship with God and i am seeing amazing changes in my life and attitude toward all that is around me.  So i feel like i am growing and learning.  So Kevin too is doing the same.  I have started to pray over him at night (since he is always asleep before me), and i am amazed at what God is showing me about this man i am deeply in love with.  Last night for example, Elijah got up once again and wanted me to lay in his bed.  Well, i felt like it was time to put a stop to this habit and said no.  That i loved him, but i was going to sleep in my bed and he was going to sleep in his.  i got frustrated with him, and he knew it.  I lacked compassion and kindness.  I was selfish in that all i wanted was sleep!!  I did not consider what might have been going on in his spirit.  But kevin recognized another opportunity of God, to go and lay with him and comfort him and pray over him and for others as he lay there with him.  Kevin was awake most of the night and was patient and prayerful.  He took the situation i was frustrated with and made it in to a God moment!